Living Solefully on a weekend means…
just be
Had to sneak two days together….shhh don’t tell. Not sure if those of you in cyber land know this about me but I am a nut when it comes to my hair. A few philosophies I have about it. 1. It grows back. Crazy right…but true. 2. Color, natural color? what’s that. 3. Change it up! Express yourself. ♥
I have had more hair cuts, bad die jobs than one can count. Many self-induced box colors, or “sun in”. Two years ago when I had my pixie cut I begged my colorist to make me a platinum blonde. She was 100% against it. Warned me I would look washed out like an albino. But I was determined and you know what they say “the customer is always right”, so she did it. My hair was the cross between blonde with some strawberry blonde to it. All I could equate it to was the heat miser!
I hate to share this secret…don’t tell…move closer to the monitor so no one else can read. I’m not a natural blonde! Oh did I just write that. Never. I love being a blonde but have been feeling like a blonde-aorexic. What is a blonde-aorexic; noun: An individual, usually a female addicted to dying or highlighting their hair blonde to which no resemblance of their natural color is found. Yup that’s me. If I could form a club, an Blonde-Aroexic-Anamyous…I would. BAA, catchy isn’t it!
So with that said I set off to my hair dressers yesterday photos in hand for a chat and a new do. I have been growing out a pixie cut for the last year and a half and have not cut my hair since December of last year. It was in need of some maintenance. It has been breaking off and looking straggly.
Jess at allora handmade went from long curly locks to a cute pixie cut. I had the pixie last year and loved it… although my hubby likes longer hair…so I was growing it out for him {kinda}… anyway Jess inspired my new look! The pixie may be next. So take a risk, take a chance…Live Solefully by being adventurous today and expressing yourself!
Enjoy the weekend!
The little man a.k.a “the turkey”, “monkey” “butter cup” my baby… turned 5 today. Crazy how time flies, seems like only a year ago I was pregnant and trucking off to the hospital.
and then there is today! All grown up… so excited to be having a birthday and this weekend his first big boy party! Where does the time go?
Gotta love him pushing away his older brother so he can blow out the candles!
It’s official::: migraines suck!
Sometimes you can’t post…can’t blog…this is one of those days. Get in bed, pull the covers over your head. Hit the reset button and start fresh tomorrow. Sorry Gals!
Day 19:: Live Solefully today by taking care of yourself.
Wow!
Cruising right along past the 1/2 way mark of my series 31 days of Living Solefully. I hope your enjoying it as much as I am. Monday’s are always a sprint….pack the kiddies in the car, drive to school, hit dunkin for my coffee, go to work for 6 hours…race to car and back to the school car line to pick up. Today I was late leaving work. I had to take off my heels to run through the parking lot. I was the very last car….my cherubs waiting impatiently. I then dropped #1 off at gymnastics and then home to make dinner and wrangle #2′s and #3′s homework. The day seems endless. As we sat at dinner as a family. An awesome chicken curry over rice, all three kiddies began rebelling in some form or fashion I just lost it. I said in a calm voice at dinner “You are all rude. I worked hard to make dinner, and you don’t appreciate it. How do you think that makes me feel?” #1 said “that makes you sad” and then #1 and #2 started to eat…#3 (he’s 4 years old) and could care a less, he continued to revolt. I guess 2 out of 3 isn’t bad. Hubby thought it was great!
As I cleaned up dinner I was reminded of this….
Living Solefully sometimes means reminding those we are closest too…to “be nice”. Does this ever happen to you…you work hard, all you want is for everyone to be nice? Maybe show a little love?
I think all my posts have had a common theme…but isn’t that the way life goes sometimes. Things happen in waves. We deal and learn from them sometimes as they happen and sometimes by hindsight. As the week as gone by and the 1/2 marathon is complete I am reminded of this short but meaningful quote:
~ Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it. ~
Greg Anderson
So for today…Live Solefully by enjoying the journey…all the twists, forks, speed bumps and the occasional accidents of life. They are who we are…and shape our tomorrow’s.
It was a beautiful day for a race…cool temps, light breeze and lots of spectators. I am one of those people who loves reading all the signs. Some of them are so heartfelt, humorous and inspiring…
Here are a few I loved…
Mile 3ish- “Your Legs Are Hurting Because Your Kicking So Much Ass!”
Mile 11- another sign read… “Check Point: Yes Your Kicking So Much Ass!”
Another cute sign: “Your better hurry I heard the beer tent is running out of beer!”
There were a million ((ok maybe not a million)) signs for someone named Laura and a bunch for another runner named Woody! Woody had fans at every mile marker. I just think it’s so cool how supportive people are of their runners. As I ran past a father with young (maybe 10-12mo) old twins in a jogging stroller, holding cow bells. I thought ”Wow, training for a 1/2 marathon with two young twins. I want to meet that woman! She’s my kinda gal”.
I love signs. I have never had one made for me…but this race was my lucky day. My daughter made the best sign…she was very proud and it was the cherry on top for me today.
I also reached my fundraising goal of $1000 for Jane Doe No More! I am so happy and honored to have people support me in such a generous way! So my message for Living Solefully on Day 15:: Support Someone in their personal efforts. Support can be through charity, sending a note of encouragement, or go to an event, race, art opening or photography reception they are involved in. Be that cherry on top for someone! You won’t regret it!
Race jitters…there’s something about the positive energy at a race expo that is infectious! I on the other hand have race jitters . My last race was the Napa Valley Marathon. So tomorrow’s race is pretty big considering I am running the 1/2 after having my full marathon training sidelined by lymes disease in July and August.
But the fun part my kiddies and hubby are coming which is a total treat! My daughter made me a bunch of signs big and small. This is what I found on my race clothes!
Living Solefully means running through the jitters, stepping out of your comfort zone to live the life you want to LIVE!